I don’t really enjoy my job but it has taught me a lot about people. In the last year, my eyes have really opened to the real world. I wouldn’t of ever had any idea about how bad someone’s life could really get, all because of money. And the sad thing is, it’s never going to change.
It also baffles me how cruel someone could be to someone who is only doing their job. Luckily, I’m not the kind of person who is bothered by being called a cunt, bitch, slut everyday all because someone refuses to deal with their liabilities.
If you are reading this and you have a debt collection company calling you, CALL THEM BACK.
There is a good chance they only want to help you, it shouldn’t have to take months or years of calling you 3 times a week to get you to finally answer the phone and realise, oh, that wasnt so hard was it.
You don’t realise there are so many options out there for people who are financially struggling, but the longer you leave it, the worse it gets and the less leniency people like myself give you. Be honest, your personal details will never leave that phone call, and to be honest, we don’t really care enough to tell anyone.
Anyway, I’m rambling, but I just want people to understand that we aren’t all horrible and if only 1 person reads this and changes their thoughts on this I will be happy.
All I ever see on tumblr is people complain about finding a good boyfriend/girlfriend and complaining that they’re single or whatever but my god, I’ve never had a harder time finding a date than finding a good friend. Good friends are so hard to find, ones I can be my complete self around. Cause that’s literally none of my friends. I always feel like I’m stepping on someone’s toes with every word that comes out of my mouth. Social media is poison and I think that’s ones of the biggest issues in this generation. No one makes real, for life friends anymore. Everything starts from the Internet and I wish it was easy to say I would just quit but you and I know that’s easier said than done when our lives revolve around it to a certain extent. I’m sick of trying with people, I know I’m a lazy person but how hard should it be to find a friend who you can spend time with, be your complete self with, without being judged or bitched about to others.
A lot of people say trust issues stem from bad relationships but all mine stem from horrible girls who don’t know what loyalty is.
It was my twentieth birthday today and I celebrated by eating delicious pizza and kissing my love.